Many veterans seem to struggle to find purpose after leaving the military. This can become a difficult transition to a new life. This can lead to depression, homelessness, and an increased risk of crisis, especially when they have physical or mental health issues to address.
I have observed this hundreds of times over decades across the country, including as recently as this Christmas. It’s a story that I lived and that needs to be told.
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